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**Thoughts Of Taris** #54…

Thoughts Of Taris #54……

Good afternoon everybody…….

Today is “Motivation Monday”. I feel so inspired it’s like my inspiration drive went so high. At first, it was very low but, I gained it back. The only reason why I have been feeling low is because no one really supports my work like I want them too.

I sometimes feel like I support other people work and they do not return it back. I know we should not automatically expect support to be given back to us. I feel like that “support becomes overrated after a while.” Support does goes a long way if you actually do it. If you all can support celebrities, then why can’t you support your friends or family members? That is one thing that irks my nerves. I can’t stand people like that. I actually learned a lesson yesterday. Their is a such thing as “Success Over Night But, With Help”.  

If you have enough people in your corner to support you, you got it. Some days you might feel like you are slacking. Some days you feel like that “Certain Things” will just never happen to you. You are wrong. Let me tell you why you are wrong. When you think like that, it is only a mindset that you have been having. Anything you do is a “Mindset”.   You are in control of what you think and feel on the daily basis. You are in control on how you live your life. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself.  You have to stop having this pity part that you so called claim that you have. You are only hurting because you keep pondering on the past. This is why you are starting to get headaches. Those headaches do not come from not eating enough. You already eat three meals a day. That is if you try to. It is because you have not forgave the things or people that have happened done you wrong in the past. You are so stuck on the past, that you never see the good things in the future. You can have so many goals but, never accomplish them. You can have so many dreams but, never create that vision into a reality. Sometimes you have to take a set back and listen. You have to listen to your heart. You heart is the best thing for you to listen too. Trust me, on this. “Listening Is The Best Skill You Could Ever Have” If  you do not listen, you will miss out on the best advice that you could ever receive. Listening comes first then, apologizing for your actions comes second. 

We sometimes forget the fact that we wake up every morning. We wake up every morning because we still have a purpose on this earth. Think about the people who already passed away. You wake up just complaining. Complaining for no reason. I already wrote a post about “Complainers” so, I won’t talk to much on that topic. I know you all are probably like, can she stop talking about that topic lol.. “Sorry”….. Here is the link so, that you all can already have an idea with my thoughts on it. 

https://thoughtsoftaris.wordpress.com/2017/03/27/thoughts-of-taris-52/?frame-nonce=be06353ea8

I finally learned how to put links into my blog posts. I saw it on someone else’s blog and thought that it would be fun to try. I will most definitely find a video from Keke Palmer and give you some inspiration from her. Keke Palmer still has her ways on inspiring me soooo so much. She truly represents Chicago in a well manner. I was trying to find the newest video but, it kept taking me back to the one with Wendy Williams show. This is the best I got lol.

Sometimes you have to follow different artists who inspire you to do what you really want to do. You have to follow them on the daily because they could have went through the same thing you went through. Different artists attracts different people. This is why we all listen to different music. Me personally, I listen to plenty of different artists who shows different sides of me. I have a rap artist who inspires me deeply. She speaks her words with confidence and does not care what the media thinks. Her name is Young M.A…. She inspires me because I write poetry. Her lyrics are different from what these other artists have been rapping about. I can really relate to her. I will be going to her concert on 4/20 at the “House Of Blues”. I will post the link to her concert tickets if you like her as well. I am sure some of you have already heard of her. The only other reason why I like her is because she doesn’t get into plenty of drama with other artists. She keeps her reputation very clean. SALUTE TO YOU…. Here is a video on Young M.A and why you should listen to her. “SHE IS COMING TO CHICAGO”!!!!!! YAYYYYY! 🙂 

http://www.thefader.com/2017/02/21/21-savage-young-ma-issa-tour-dates

When I go to her concert, I am going to give her my business card so that, I can show her my blog. I already got her “Meet And Greet” tickets and the “Regular Ticket”….. 

I actually have a “SoundCloud Account” that Iam trying to get out their. “Motivation Monday’s” should be for your self. They should be used to “Promote Your Work” and “Others Work”…

Now, that I have shared their work. It is time to share mines. I pretty much have my work every where. Here is a poem that I did called “Colorful Hands.” Someone inspired me to do this poem. The words in the text messages really had my heart locked in like Inspiration.

I know my work is good. I just wish that more people would listen to it. Good thing that I have this blog to promote my work as well. Withouth my blog, I think that I would be kind of lost. I have some of my poems on “All Poetry”…. New Poems and Old Poems……… All Poetry is a sight that helps you get your work out their. This site has plenty of different genres that are simply amazing. Here is a link to my “All Poetry” website. 

https://new.allpoetry.com/Taris_Kendricks

I know I am going crazy with the links lol. “Sorry”….. I am having fun just copying and pasting links. That means I have a lot of outlets that I can put my work out. I just wish that I had that main supporter. That main supporter who tries to connect with me on a deeper level. I just wish they actually tried to get to know me. You really have to get to know ‘Underground Artists” in order to like their work. On that note, that is my “Que” to leave this blog post lol. Alright, I am gone. I hope you all stay up and stay positive. Carry on. Have a beautiful Monday. 🙂

Thoughts of Taris #54

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**Thoughts Of Taris** #52….

Was-sup my awesome readers,

I want to talk about one word “Complainers”..  I feel like some people “complain” about any and everything. I feel like “complainers” come from “people who don’t mind their business.”  When other individuals don’t mind their business, drama starts happening. Or shall I say “Debates”……I know you all have been in one of the worst debates ever. Am I right?

I am going to give others a run down on some of the things others “complain” about. You are probably one of the ones who either do these things or someone has done them toward you.

EXAMPLE ONE:

(Facebook)…..

Some people “complain” about who they have on their Facebook page. They “complain” about what they post. Folks complain about what they share and comment on. We can easily solve this issue by deleting who ever the person is. Duhhhhhhh! If you do not want someone who constantly posts porn, DELETE THEM! SIMPLE! I feel like others should not have the audacity to complain about certain things, because they have control of it. Do you all ever think about that? I feel like if a person complains about something like this, they just want to receive a reaction from them.

EXAMPLE TWO: 

(Phone calls and text messages)………This also ties with example #1….

Some people “complain” about receiving phone calls from certain individuals that they do not like. Well, if you do not like them, why did you give them your number in the first place? You personally gave them the “POWER” to use your number however they wanted to.  If you have someone who is constantly sending you Biblical Scriptures and you don’t like it. 9 times out of 10, they will keep sending those scriptures. Even if you tell them to stop sending them, they will not stop. You knew that they were a Christian, you personally did that to yourself. lol. How do I know? I have experience in this. It becomes irritating at a certain point, right? I just stop replying and you should as well. When you stop responding to something, they will stop sending. EVENTUALLY! LOL!

   Here is how to solve this issue. You have two different ways. lol. I feel like you all should personally know this already. 

   Solve issue #1: BLOCK THEIR NUMBER! SIMPLE!

All you have to do is, go in your call logs and go into your settings. Your settings gives you the option to block their number. Your message settings does the exact same thing. I feel like you should know this. Considering the fact that we are on our phones twenty four seven.

   Solve issue #2: CHANGE YOUR NUMBER!

Whichever provider you are with, should give you an option to change your number. I feel that is the best option, out of all options. That might be a problem with certain people because they might have a business that they run. So, they have to keep in contact with all of their clients. Now with that issue, I can honestly understand. It is still different ways around that though. If you have a major problem with someone stalking you. Add all of your clients on “SOCIAL MEDIA” so, that they can stay in touch with you. Another “duhhhhhhh” moment lol. I personally feel that you should not constantly give your number out unless, you have grown to know that person. That is just me personally.

   EXAMPLE THREE: LGBTQ COMMUNITY………WOMP WOMP! 

If you are not apart of this community and do not want to be apart of it. STAY OUT OF IT! SIMPLE.!  I know I am probably making this seem really easy. Trust me, it really is easy. Some people complain about the dumbest things in this certain area lol. I can personally go on and on about this topic. Different issues contains different debates with different people. BOOM!Hey, I think my Poetic Justice just flew in lol. (Talking to myself here.) We have some INDIVIDUALS that say people should not live a certain way. How can you possibly tell someone how to live their OWN LIFE? This subject really bothers me. SERIOUSLY! If you are not living that way, then why should it even bother you? You can not tell someone not to date some one that they love. YOU JUST CAN’T. The reason being is because you do not have “GOD” printed on your forehead. You have “YOU” printed on your forehead. Which means, you need to be your self. Once you began to be your self, you will learn to accept others as their self. If two lesbians walk down the street, you consider that as not “Normal”. What is normal to them, might not be normal to you. So, stop complaining those certain issues. One thing that irks my nerves is when someone thinks that they can automatically change another person life because, they are disturbed by it. This might make you mad but, you just can’t. If they are not saying anything about your life, then why should you speak on theirs. Don’t get me wrong, I understand “FREEDOM OF SPEECH”  but, some of you take that too lightly. Remember that saying, if you do not have anything nice to say, do not say it all all. SIMPLE.!! Do not complain how another person has sex with the same sex if you are not doing it. SIMPLE!!!  If you see a female dressing like a male, let them be. They are not trying to copy males at all. They just like certain clothing like, how some of us like and dislikes certain clothing. If you are not wearing it, SHUT UP. If you are a male complaining about it, I would just think that you are jealous lol. Sorry not sorry. Don’t stare at someone with a disgusting look on your face. Those same individuals have a purpose on this earth, just as much as you have purpose on this earth. If you don’t like it, look away. PERIOD! Do not take pictures of that person and talk about them. What if someone did that to you? How would you feel? I would personally feel hurt.

Well, those are the only main examples that I can think of right now.

The moral of this post is,  do not complain about something you have no type of control over. Do not complain over something that you do have control over. It all depends on how you handle the situation personally. Complaining gets you no where in life but, a dead end. Taking action toward what you complain about, gets you at least toward a destination. If someone complains about this blog post. My point has been made. Think before you complain. Well alright, I have things to do with my life lol. I am off this thingy. Thanks for reading. And remember do not complain about certain things if you are not going to do anything about it. Let others be them selves if they let you do the same. Have a good day now. Carry On Peeps…… 🙂

Can you think of different examples that humans complain about?

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**Thoughts Of Taris** #48…..

Thoughts Of Taris #48….

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I have officially been away from my blog for 5 days now and I am back it……

I have a question for you all.

Is it better being single all your life and focus on your money? Or is it better to keep focusing on you while dating? I personally feel like that you can still work on your self and date people at the same time. You do not have to be serious just yet, but keep your eyes open. In the midst, you can find a lover. That is why you have to patiently wait and do not rush anything. When you rush things, they end quicker. Remember that! Now, that we have touched base on that topic….. Today, I discovered something.

We all have problems. Some of our problems might be big or small, it all depends on how you deal with them. We can’t always depend on others to be “Captain Save A Hoe” with our problems. They just might be going through the same thing as you and scared to ask for help….. It is okay to ask for help…Closed mouths don’t get fed. You can ask for it maybe once or twice but, not constantly. That one thing that I am talking about is money. People ask for money constantly but, you can really tell when someone actually needs it. Once you give it to them, they will truly appreciate it and say thank-you a bunch of times.

Sometimes a card full of words will do the trick. Your words have to be thoughtful and make them smile. 🙂 If it makes their day, then you have done your job. We have assignments that we have to complete and you will most definitely know when you have completed it. Some people are very close minded. Well, I should not say close minded but, I should say ONE TRACK MINDED…..!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Let me give you an example on what I mean by that.

When it comes to our jobs, we are scared to date because of the drama that might come with it. Sometimes it all depends on how you both deal with things. If you both are mature enough to date and work than their should be no problem. You should just complete your shift and go home.

You should always keep your personal business to yourself. Do not tell other co-workers what is going on in your relationship. Especially your sex life because it can most definitely get around the entire store. Just make sure you let everyone know that you two are dating and keep it at that. So, I currently am crushing on someone at my job. When I say she is fine, she is most definitely fineeeeeeeeeeee. Every time I see her I just want to hug her but, that is TMI lol… We have been talking lately and she has my attention. Every time she texts me, I am smiling. So, their is a spark some where in the universe. (I just love the word universe). Hahaha. It was meant for us to connect. All it took was for me to say Good Morning and we exchanged numbers. Which was an awesome thing that happened.

She needed a favor and I helped her. I feel like if I needed something than she would help me out. You never know. I think things like that will grab someone’s attention. It shows loyalty. Here is one thing that I have noticed about her though. When she told me that I can put my number in her phone, she just automatically gave me the password. I was like “Waittttttttttt whattttttttt? That most definitely shows TRUST….. I can tell that she is trustworthy by the way she talks.

She is a little older but, not that much older. So, she knows more and that attracts me. Yayyyyyyyyyyyyyy. Well, if things get intimate I will let you all know my thoughts on it.

My advice for you all is to try new things and let the Universe do its job. You never know who you will be connected to. Trust me, I am most definitely learning. Talk to God or whom ever and watch what happens. Trust yourself. Speak it into existence and watch it manifest. Maybe I might do vlogs with the both of us if it gets that far. I always wanted to do that like; a Domo and Chrissy type of thing but, different. By the way, Domo and Chrissy are so cute. I just love them. Well, my day has been made and hopefully yours will too. I have to get to work now. Whoever you are talking to, please spark their day if they are going through something. Trust me, it works. I am still single though blahhh lol but, time will tell. Once that love sparks somewhere, vlogs will be coming if they are up for it or pictures. Yall have a great day now. (In my country voice)….

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**Thoughts Of Taris** 25

**Thoughts Of Taris** #25….

Goodafternoon everyone, 

I have a slight concern for homeless people. We see all of these homeless people on the train and on the streets. They are constantly begging and saying that they’re hungry. Most of the time, I want to believe them but, then I don’t. 

  • Here is my reason why…..

When I am on the train, I see these same homeless people buying cigarettes. It makes me not want to give them anything. Sometimes I feel like they spend their money on drugs instead of food. They spend at least two or five dollars rather than going to McDonalds and getting a hasbrown. I mean come on now!!! And now I am looking at a women while I am at Chick-Fila. She looked very cold. I saw her legs shaking and her nose was red. She had her scarf wrapped around her face. She barely had a coat. Her shoes were all messed up. It was sad that I just gave her some of my fries, a pink gift card, a card to a homeless shelter, my business card to get some motivation, bottle of water and some change. 

I could tell she was hungry by how she ate a granola bar so fast. I am like geesh. I felt her pain and so did this other lady who was sitting next to me. I realized that I was being greedy because I ate something already before I went into Chic-Fila. Even though their food is extremely good especially their chicken nuggets. 

I guess I had a heart for this lady because I am a lady myself. Who knows how old she was. She was probably about in her late 20’s…. Maybe 26 or so. She is on state and lake street sitting in front of Chic-Fila with a sign in her hand. If she is still there, you won’t miss her. Go help her out. She was very thankful and would say something like”Yayyyyy” after wards. 😉I feel very helpful today. Welp, these are my thoughts. Carry on..!! ✊❤