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**Thoughts Of Taris** #54…

Thoughts Of Taris #54……

Good afternoon everybody…….

Today is “Motivation Monday”. I feel so inspired it’s like my inspiration drive went so high. At first, it was very low but, I gained it back. The only reason why I have been feeling low is because no one really supports my work like I want them too.

I sometimes feel like I support other people work and they do not return it back. I know we should not automatically expect support to be given back to us. I feel like that “support becomes overrated after a while.” Support does goes a long way if you actually do it. If you all can support celebrities, then why can’t you support your friends or family members? That is one thing that irks my nerves. I can’t stand people like that. I actually learned a lesson yesterday. Their is a such thing as “Success Over Night But, With Help”.  

If you have enough people in your corner to support you, you got it. Some days you might feel like you are slacking. Some days you feel like that “Certain Things” will just never happen to you. You are wrong. Let me tell you why you are wrong. When you think like that, it is only a mindset that you have been having. Anything you do is a “Mindset”.   You are in control of what you think and feel on the daily basis. You are in control on how you live your life. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself.  You have to stop having this pity part that you so called claim that you have. You are only hurting because you keep pondering on the past. This is why you are starting to get headaches. Those headaches do not come from not eating enough. You already eat three meals a day. That is if you try to. It is because you have not forgave the things or people that have happened done you wrong in the past. You are so stuck on the past, that you never see the good things in the future. You can have so many goals but, never accomplish them. You can have so many dreams but, never create that vision into a reality. Sometimes you have to take a set back and listen. You have to listen to your heart. You heart is the best thing for you to listen too. Trust me, on this. “Listening Is The Best Skill You Could Ever Have” If  you do not listen, you will miss out on the best advice that you could ever receive. Listening comes first then, apologizing for your actions comes second. 

We sometimes forget the fact that we wake up every morning. We wake up every morning because we still have a purpose on this earth. Think about the people who already passed away. You wake up just complaining. Complaining for no reason. I already wrote a post about “Complainers” so, I won’t talk to much on that topic. I know you all are probably like, can she stop talking about that topic lol.. “Sorry”….. Here is the link so, that you all can already have an idea with my thoughts on it. 

https://thoughtsoftaris.wordpress.com/2017/03/27/thoughts-of-taris-52/?frame-nonce=be06353ea8

I finally learned how to put links into my blog posts. I saw it on someone else’s blog and thought that it would be fun to try. I will most definitely find a video from Keke Palmer and give you some inspiration from her. Keke Palmer still has her ways on inspiring me soooo so much. She truly represents Chicago in a well manner. I was trying to find the newest video but, it kept taking me back to the one with Wendy Williams show. This is the best I got lol.

Sometimes you have to follow different artists who inspire you to do what you really want to do. You have to follow them on the daily because they could have went through the same thing you went through. Different artists attracts different people. This is why we all listen to different music. Me personally, I listen to plenty of different artists who shows different sides of me. I have a rap artist who inspires me deeply. She speaks her words with confidence and does not care what the media thinks. Her name is Young M.A…. She inspires me because I write poetry. Her lyrics are different from what these other artists have been rapping about. I can really relate to her. I will be going to her concert on 4/20 at the “House Of Blues”. I will post the link to her concert tickets if you like her as well. I am sure some of you have already heard of her. The only other reason why I like her is because she doesn’t get into plenty of drama with other artists. She keeps her reputation very clean. SALUTE TO YOU…. Here is a video on Young M.A and why you should listen to her. “SHE IS COMING TO CHICAGO”!!!!!! YAYYYYY! 🙂 

http://www.thefader.com/2017/02/21/21-savage-young-ma-issa-tour-dates

When I go to her concert, I am going to give her my business card so that, I can show her my blog. I already got her “Meet And Greet” tickets and the “Regular Ticket”….. 

I actually have a “SoundCloud Account” that Iam trying to get out their. “Motivation Monday’s” should be for your self. They should be used to “Promote Your Work” and “Others Work”…

Now, that I have shared their work. It is time to share mines. I pretty much have my work every where. Here is a poem that I did called “Colorful Hands.” Someone inspired me to do this poem. The words in the text messages really had my heart locked in like Inspiration.

I know my work is good. I just wish that more people would listen to it. Good thing that I have this blog to promote my work as well. Withouth my blog, I think that I would be kind of lost. I have some of my poems on “All Poetry”…. New Poems and Old Poems……… All Poetry is a sight that helps you get your work out their. This site has plenty of different genres that are simply amazing. Here is a link to my “All Poetry” website. 

https://new.allpoetry.com/Taris_Kendricks

I know I am going crazy with the links lol. “Sorry”….. I am having fun just copying and pasting links. That means I have a lot of outlets that I can put my work out. I just wish that I had that main supporter. That main supporter who tries to connect with me on a deeper level. I just wish they actually tried to get to know me. You really have to get to know ‘Underground Artists” in order to like their work. On that note, that is my “Que” to leave this blog post lol. Alright, I am gone. I hope you all stay up and stay positive. Carry on. Have a beautiful Monday. 🙂

Thoughts of Taris #54

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**Thoughts Of Taris** #52….

Was-sup my awesome readers,

I want to talk about one word “Complainers”..  I feel like some people “complain” about any and everything. I feel like “complainers” come from “people who don’t mind their business.”  When other individuals don’t mind their business, drama starts happening. Or shall I say “Debates”……I know you all have been in one of the worst debates ever. Am I right?

I am going to give others a run down on some of the things others “complain” about. You are probably one of the ones who either do these things or someone has done them toward you.

EXAMPLE ONE:

(Facebook)…..

Some people “complain” about who they have on their Facebook page. They “complain” about what they post. Folks complain about what they share and comment on. We can easily solve this issue by deleting who ever the person is. Duhhhhhhh! If you do not want someone who constantly posts porn, DELETE THEM! SIMPLE! I feel like others should not have the audacity to complain about certain things, because they have control of it. Do you all ever think about that? I feel like if a person complains about something like this, they just want to receive a reaction from them.

EXAMPLE TWO: 

(Phone calls and text messages)………This also ties with example #1….

Some people “complain” about receiving phone calls from certain individuals that they do not like. Well, if you do not like them, why did you give them your number in the first place? You personally gave them the “POWER” to use your number however they wanted to.  If you have someone who is constantly sending you Biblical Scriptures and you don’t like it. 9 times out of 10, they will keep sending those scriptures. Even if you tell them to stop sending them, they will not stop. You knew that they were a Christian, you personally did that to yourself. lol. How do I know? I have experience in this. It becomes irritating at a certain point, right? I just stop replying and you should as well. When you stop responding to something, they will stop sending. EVENTUALLY! LOL!

   Here is how to solve this issue. You have two different ways. lol. I feel like you all should personally know this already. 

   Solve issue #1: BLOCK THEIR NUMBER! SIMPLE!

All you have to do is, go in your call logs and go into your settings. Your settings gives you the option to block their number. Your message settings does the exact same thing. I feel like you should know this. Considering the fact that we are on our phones twenty four seven.

   Solve issue #2: CHANGE YOUR NUMBER!

Whichever provider you are with, should give you an option to change your number. I feel that is the best option, out of all options. That might be a problem with certain people because they might have a business that they run. So, they have to keep in contact with all of their clients. Now with that issue, I can honestly understand. It is still different ways around that though. If you have a major problem with someone stalking you. Add all of your clients on “SOCIAL MEDIA” so, that they can stay in touch with you. Another “duhhhhhhh” moment lol. I personally feel that you should not constantly give your number out unless, you have grown to know that person. That is just me personally.

   EXAMPLE THREE: LGBTQ COMMUNITY………WOMP WOMP! 

If you are not apart of this community and do not want to be apart of it. STAY OUT OF IT! SIMPLE.!  I know I am probably making this seem really easy. Trust me, it really is easy. Some people complain about the dumbest things in this certain area lol. I can personally go on and on about this topic. Different issues contains different debates with different people. BOOM!Hey, I think my Poetic Justice just flew in lol. (Talking to myself here.) We have some INDIVIDUALS that say people should not live a certain way. How can you possibly tell someone how to live their OWN LIFE? This subject really bothers me. SERIOUSLY! If you are not living that way, then why should it even bother you? You can not tell someone not to date some one that they love. YOU JUST CAN’T. The reason being is because you do not have “GOD” printed on your forehead. You have “YOU” printed on your forehead. Which means, you need to be your self. Once you began to be your self, you will learn to accept others as their self. If two lesbians walk down the street, you consider that as not “Normal”. What is normal to them, might not be normal to you. So, stop complaining those certain issues. One thing that irks my nerves is when someone thinks that they can automatically change another person life because, they are disturbed by it. This might make you mad but, you just can’t. If they are not saying anything about your life, then why should you speak on theirs. Don’t get me wrong, I understand “FREEDOM OF SPEECH”  but, some of you take that too lightly. Remember that saying, if you do not have anything nice to say, do not say it all all. SIMPLE.!! Do not complain how another person has sex with the same sex if you are not doing it. SIMPLE!!!  If you see a female dressing like a male, let them be. They are not trying to copy males at all. They just like certain clothing like, how some of us like and dislikes certain clothing. If you are not wearing it, SHUT UP. If you are a male complaining about it, I would just think that you are jealous lol. Sorry not sorry. Don’t stare at someone with a disgusting look on your face. Those same individuals have a purpose on this earth, just as much as you have purpose on this earth. If you don’t like it, look away. PERIOD! Do not take pictures of that person and talk about them. What if someone did that to you? How would you feel? I would personally feel hurt.

Well, those are the only main examples that I can think of right now.

The moral of this post is,  do not complain about something you have no type of control over. Do not complain over something that you do have control over. It all depends on how you handle the situation personally. Complaining gets you no where in life but, a dead end. Taking action toward what you complain about, gets you at least toward a destination. If someone complains about this blog post. My point has been made. Think before you complain. Well alright, I have things to do with my life lol. I am off this thingy. Thanks for reading. And remember do not complain about certain things if you are not going to do anything about it. Let others be them selves if they let you do the same. Have a good day now. Carry On Peeps…… 🙂

Can you think of different examples that humans complain about?

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**Thoughts Of Taris** #50….

Wassup ladies and gents.

It is something that really irks my nerves. Something that irks my nerves about older man. So, I have a baby face and appearantly they do not care.

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I am sure it is plenty of us. I am scared what goes on in these older  man minds. Don’t get me wrong, I respect my elders, they just cross boundaries sometimes. When I am traveling to school or work, these man be all up in my face.

Seriously.!!! 

I be thinking in my head like,  what the hell you starring at? Can I get my face back? 

Some of these older man actually be trying to force us young ladies to talk to them. The only reason they do that is because they can’t get what they want. When they can’t get what they want, they force it!!!!! Either they not getting it at home or it is because our “PUSSY” is something new and clean. For all my readers, I keep my blog raw and tell the truth. That is basically how my thoughts are most of the time lol. Mainly sex is what be on these Man mind and that is horrible. It is like their “PENISIS”  control their life. When they say goodmorning to us, I guess that is their way of starting a conversation with us. HINT HINT…They use that line “you are very beautiful”….Now, don’t get me wrong their are some men who can give some of us ladies a compliment and keep it moving. Salute To You All…..!! 

I just wish they would keep their thoughts to a minimum. You feel me? 

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We have goals in our lives that we are trying to accomplish. Such as school, career jobs, a family, etc….. We should not be worried about someone trying to rape us. That is scarey. But, it is not always the man fault. Sometimes it is our fault. It is our fault because of the way that we dress. Sometimes we dress with our skin showing and we think that it is sexy. When really our clothes tells a man that we are an “eye candy”… I hope I described that right lol. Me personally, young or older man does not even hold my attention long. Woman catch my attention now. Even older woman lol,  sorry if this makes some of you feel  uncomfortable. Haha…..! When man talk to me, I  tend to get irritated and think in my head like “ehhhhhhhhhh” back up off me. “So they creep yeahh yeahhhh” in my TLC voice lmaoo.

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When I see other woman walking, I see Man looking at other woman buts. It is disgusting by the way they look at them. I just be wanting to say, keep your eyes to your selves…

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I wonder if someone has the same thoughts as me. Maybe it is just me who has these thoughts lol. I be feeling so weird with my thoughts. Question:

Do you think Man are more creepy than Woman?

I know that is a weird question. I mean, it does not hurt to ask though right? It is worth the try.

Well, here is some advice for you man out there. I will put this in bold letters for you.

WHEN YOU SPEAK TO A LADY AND THEY DO NOT RESPOND BACK TO YOU. DO NOT FORCE THEM TO TALK TO  YOU. WE WILL INSTANTLY THINK SOMETHING ABOUT YOU. IF YOU TRY TO SPEAK TO A YOUNG FEMALE, WE WILL LOOK AT YOU LIKE YOU ARE CRAZY….I HAVE PERSONALLY SEEN SOME OF YOU DO THIS. NASTY!!!! LEAVE THESE BABIES ALONE. THIS MAKES ME SCARED FOR OUR GENERATION.

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Be careful out here young ladies. Welp, these are my thoughts. Carry on peeps. 🙂

**THOUGHTS OF TARIS** #50…… 🙂

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**Thoughts Of Taris** #48…..

Thoughts Of Taris #48….

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I have officially been away from my blog for 5 days now and I am back it……

I have a question for you all.

Is it better being single all your life and focus on your money? Or is it better to keep focusing on you while dating? I personally feel like that you can still work on your self and date people at the same time. You do not have to be serious just yet, but keep your eyes open. In the midst, you can find a lover. That is why you have to patiently wait and do not rush anything. When you rush things, they end quicker. Remember that! Now, that we have touched base on that topic….. Today, I discovered something.

We all have problems. Some of our problems might be big or small, it all depends on how you deal with them. We can’t always depend on others to be “Captain Save A Hoe” with our problems. They just might be going through the same thing as you and scared to ask for help….. It is okay to ask for help…Closed mouths don’t get fed. You can ask for it maybe once or twice but, not constantly. That one thing that I am talking about is money. People ask for money constantly but, you can really tell when someone actually needs it. Once you give it to them, they will truly appreciate it and say thank-you a bunch of times.

Sometimes a card full of words will do the trick. Your words have to be thoughtful and make them smile. 🙂 If it makes their day, then you have done your job. We have assignments that we have to complete and you will most definitely know when you have completed it. Some people are very close minded. Well, I should not say close minded but, I should say ONE TRACK MINDED…..!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Let me give you an example on what I mean by that.

When it comes to our jobs, we are scared to date because of the drama that might come with it. Sometimes it all depends on how you both deal with things. If you both are mature enough to date and work than their should be no problem. You should just complete your shift and go home.

You should always keep your personal business to yourself. Do not tell other co-workers what is going on in your relationship. Especially your sex life because it can most definitely get around the entire store. Just make sure you let everyone know that you two are dating and keep it at that. So, I currently am crushing on someone at my job. When I say she is fine, she is most definitely fineeeeeeeeeeee. Every time I see her I just want to hug her but, that is TMI lol… We have been talking lately and she has my attention. Every time she texts me, I am smiling. So, their is a spark some where in the universe. (I just love the word universe). Hahaha. It was meant for us to connect. All it took was for me to say Good Morning and we exchanged numbers. Which was an awesome thing that happened.

She needed a favor and I helped her. I feel like if I needed something than she would help me out. You never know. I think things like that will grab someone’s attention. It shows loyalty. Here is one thing that I have noticed about her though. When she told me that I can put my number in her phone, she just automatically gave me the password. I was like “Waittttttttttt whattttttttt? That most definitely shows TRUST….. I can tell that she is trustworthy by the way she talks.

She is a little older but, not that much older. So, she knows more and that attracts me. Yayyyyyyyyyyyyyy. Well, if things get intimate I will let you all know my thoughts on it.

My advice for you all is to try new things and let the Universe do its job. You never know who you will be connected to. Trust me, I am most definitely learning. Talk to God or whom ever and watch what happens. Trust yourself. Speak it into existence and watch it manifest. Maybe I might do vlogs with the both of us if it gets that far. I always wanted to do that like; a Domo and Chrissy type of thing but, different. By the way, Domo and Chrissy are so cute. I just love them. Well, my day has been made and hopefully yours will too. I have to get to work now. Whoever you are talking to, please spark their day if they are going through something. Trust me, it works. I am still single though blahhh lol but, time will tell. Once that love sparks somewhere, vlogs will be coming if they are up for it or pictures. Yall have a great day now. (In my country voice)….

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**Thoughts Of Taris** #46…

**Thoughts Of Taris** #46

Hey all,

   So today, I wanted to talk about how some things are common  sense. Common Sense is not so common nowadays. As I sit back and observe something’s, I realize that we ask dumb questions that we can just simply answer our selves.

   Our answers could possibly be right in our face. I am not saying that I know more than anyone else but, with something’s I do. I wish people would think about the questions that they ask before they ask. SIMPLE RIGHT? Even though in school we were simply taught that “No Question Is A Dumb Question.” Our teachers said that because someone else might have the same exact question. FALSE….  

   For example, say if you are in the library and you are getting ready to print something. Someone is in front of you, he or she does not know how to press “DONE” on the screen. I had to show her the word “Done” was on the top right corner of the screen. The word was in big letters and was in the color red. I know she is not blind because she did everything else before her things  got printed. Here comes that main saying, “Reading Is Fundamental. “….. Rings a bell?

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   If you just simply read what is right in front you, life would be so much easier. I was not going to post about this today but, I got inspired. I am in the library and this happened to me a couple seconds ago. When I am at my job, customers do this to me all the time. They simply can not read signs that are above the aisles. They ask “Where is your bread?” There is a section that is full of bread, I mean come on now, everyone knows that. I get frustrated with this and it kind of makes me feel like a NERD in a way. This is why people should read more books and eat more carrots. Carrots help improve our eye site.

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At  first, I stopped eating carrots because I went crazy with all the sugary stuff. I know you are probably like yeah I can most definitely relate to that. Sometimes it depends on what type of books you read as well. If you read books that have bigger words, more than likely your vocabulary will expand. I am trying to do that myself. I catch myself reading signs more often. On my library card it says. Read, Learn, Discover. Is that at least helpful?

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   Uhmmmm, maybe some people have brain farts. Or they simply are thinking about too many things at once. Some people just might need your help when they ask questions. Don’t get me wrong their is nothing wrong with asking questions. Questions are fun and you get all the facts. Even as a journalist you have to ask plenty of questions. I do believe that your questions can’t be vague. Am I Right? Your questions have to make the other person think. You have to ask the Who?, What, When, Where, Why, and How? The lady did use a How question which was again a question she could of answered her self. As I said before, my major is journalism and some things just irks my nerves. If you stay in school, you will realize some of the things that I am realizing.  Do not give them the stink eye when they ask the question. Be kind and do not be sarcastic. I deal with this all the time. I am currently a Sophomore in college. Yayyyyy me. Take a peek at what I learning.

What are some things that irks your nerves?

Welp, these are my thoughts. Carry on.

**Thoughts of Taris** 46….:)

**Thoughts Of Taris** #34… 

**Thoughts of Taris** #34…

Hey all, 

You ever think about taking some days off from life. You realize that is not possible. You have so many things going on and you want to take a break. Maybe go on a vacation. You realize there is one or two things stopping you. Work or maybe school. Both if those things take up most of your time. 

You never have time for fun. You feel like you are just living an average life. Working a 9-5 like every one else. You are not stable enough to do what you really want to do. You feel like everybody life is moving on so quickly and you are just stagnant. A job is good but, not good enough to where you need to be. You can’t really save as much money as you want because you have bills you need to pay and grocies so you can eat. If you don’t buy grocies, you will end up eating fast food. Then again, you end up eating fast food anyway because you feen for it. I know I do. 

You think to your self that you need a change in your life. You think about going on a diet. You think about going out more and partying. You think about buying things that will soon benefit you in the future. You are just like, what is it? You want to meet new friends but, it is hard. You want to get back in touch with family members but, they are doing their own thing so they forget about you. 

You need a change. I need a change. We all need a change. We need something spontaneous to spark up our life a little bit. We all want to start traveling soon. We all want our careers to pop out on us with greatness. Did you know in order for all those things to happen, we need to have MONEY. Money is great but, we start turning ugly when we receive more of it. I notice that with celebrities. They dream of this life and don’t want to live an average life. Then again, their personality is not the same. So, before we wish for this life. We have to be careful on how we want to do it. If we don’t want to be average, we have to build our character first before money recks our behaviour. A better life takes patience. Without struggle, how would we know what a better life feels like? Welp, these are my thoughts for tonight. Carry on peoples and get some rest.❤😊

**Thoughts of Taris**#34….