**Thoughts Of Taris** #12 … 😃❤
Sometimes being around the same people every day can get irritating. They think that they know so much about you.
In all reality,
they know nothing. They know nothing about you because, they never sat down and had a real conversation with you. Those are the people who create lies about you. Sometimes co-workers assume that they know you. When really they only know of you. They assume everything they hear about you is true. When most things could be a lie. You never know the real reason on why people are lying on you. We do know the main reason. “HATERS”… They are the ones who continue to talk about you. You might as well go into the entertainment business.
In the entertainment business,
you have the same problems, they just get worse and can cost you money. That is about all. Some people use you and manipulate your mind. They make you think that you are crazy and insecure by everything you are saying. They say that it is mainly bull-shit, when really it is true. People hate you for the truth, they rather play a role of lying.
Males in the workplace want to have sex with you. When you say no they do low blows and then apologize 2 hours later. This does not make since. Females in the workplace are jealous of you. They will find one thing and talk about you. You might have the coworkers who roast each other in the break room like high schoolers and the situation gets worse.
Some truth come out and people get mad. You can not get mad because someone didn’t want to go out with you. That is childish. You are how old?
Knowing me, I like to try everything once. I have tried Friends With Benefits with someone I worked with. That went all wrong. He claims he wasn’t using me. When most people say he was using me. He claims so much but, his action says otherwise.
My advice to you all is never do FWB with another co-worker or any one period. THEY ARE USING YOU PERIOD!!! It is nothing that they can say that makes you think that they are not using you. They will try to take all of your money and have you buy them things. But, say that they don’t need you. A person who is having money problems will try a FWB with another female. These males think that females can not catch feelings at no cost. That is determined a lie. Ain’t no way in hell that a female is that hardcore that they don’t catch feelings. That goes the same for males to. They hide their feelings and want to play you when really have feelings for you. They come back years later and say I Miss You. If he has not done anything for you because, you didn’t ask him for anything, THAT IS BULLSHIT!!! He still should pay for something. REGARDLESS!!!! You are not a bank for him. If he doesn’t have a good job than that is his problem, not yours.
My other advice to you is, you do not have to stay in the break-room for a whole hour lunch. Go some where else. It is a lot of negativity in their. You will start noticing when you observe everything. Especially in the retail business. I am not a manager, I am just an associate who experienced different things. Please say no to any male who wants to date you in the workplace. Don’t give them a chance at all. Date someone out side of the workplace. You will be mad because of what others are saying and everything. Just be careful where you are now. These are my thoughts. Never mix business with pleasure.
Carry on!!! ❤😍
**Thoughts Of Taris** #12…..